Why did he do this to me,im heartbroken?

Oh my goodness. After reading this, I just want to go over there and slap him. OK, please try to listen carefully and keep your mind open as to what I'm saying. But you need to have some pride and confidence...you are giving in way too much to him and he needs to be taught a lesson. You also need to understand that what he did to you is wrong, disgusting, not normal in healthy relationships, and just plain horrible. Here is exactly what I would do. Contact his girlfriend and let him know exactly what has happened...the truth. Tell her about the three years you guys went out and how he treated you like dirt after and how he wanted you to lie for him. She needs to know what kind of disgusting rat this man is and to not make the same mistake you did. After warning her, you need to help yourself too. Stop ALL communications with him- don't call him, don't answer his calls, don't read his texts, and don't text him back. Don't meet up with him either...just get him out of your life. You are too good for him and you have to understand that there are thousands of other men out in the world who are sweet, smart, funny, and genuinely good-hearted. There are so many out there for you who will not take advantage of you and abuse you emotionally...dudette, you don't deserve a dog, but a man! Stay strong and clean up this mess so that it is out of your life and so that you won't make the same mistake again. And remember, you WILL have some feelings for him for some time...it's only natural since you guys did have a relationship. But you have to know that he is an abusive, low, dirty man who doesn't deserve you so stay strong and make things right! Good luck, Lis